Sadras
Legend
Do mean MoonSong?
Yeah, my bad - I meant to go back and check the name, but forgot in my eager search for the Hygiene guide

Good luck with the tax treatise! I too am in that field.
[MENTION=6688277]Sadras[/MENTION] , what I wanted to say was that regardless of intentions, symbols can communicate unintended messages depending on the context. No matter how balanced, having sex dependent pluses and minuses causes an unintended message and it isn't a nice one. 'Men are (physically) stronger' is an obvious difference, any possible differences in favor of women aren't that obvious, risk stereotyping, and can be quite offensive or off-putting. Even though it is an unintended message, it is a perceived message, and not a nice and inviting one. I wasn't trying to imply you yourself thought this, sorry for that. (Talk about being self demonstrating n_n)
I myself am not that concerned with being PC, but there is a clear divide between not caring if you risk offending people and doing something you are sure will offend people. This is a game that you can only win by not playing. It isn't worth it.
I understand. We gamers are a mixed bunch, who can't agree on editions and even when we do, we disagree on mechanics, the desired level of magic in a campaign, gods, settings or other. Throw in desires for RL simulation and we split in further. As far as I can see, that is what we have here in this thread, no one is seeking to offend anyone.
It was some time ago when one of Enworld's posters did an actual comparison between physical feats performed in-game (running speed, jumping distance of height and length, carrying capacity...etc) using maximum stats to RL olympic records. That is the level of granuality some gamers go to. We're a bunch who have too much time on our hands!
Me, I just want to fix my weapons and armour table and stop procrastinating

I would argue that a 20 strength woman (just like a halfling stronger than an half-orc) is a corner case, not something so common that you'd need to worry about it. And even if it was common, players play individuals not platonic archetypes.
I agree with you, the halfling/women STR 20 are likely corner cases and possibly won't even be seen at my table. Sadly no female players at my fixed table and our resident halfling is a sorcerer. I have another table with 3 ladies and 1 guy but it is very irregular.