Campbell
Relaxed Intensity
When it comes to role playing games I pretty much value fair challenges and experiencing what my character experiences on an emotional level.
I think it should be pretty damn obvious why someone who values skilled play would care about the integrity of those wins and losses. That victory should be the result of fair situations where the rules are applied fairly. Same for losses.
When it comes to character focused play you often have to go to a pretty damn vulnerable place. If you are there emotionally and the people you are playing with have a detached view of the situation that gives them immense social power over you. It just does not feel very safe to me. I just can't go to where I want to go emotionally if I cannot trust the people I am playing with to not use that passion to achieve their story ends. I have similar feelings about acting with more performative actors. If they are not going to be vulnerable with me I cannot be vulnerable with them.
Even with more story oriented play I cannot imagine wanting to play with people who aren't there to enjoy your creativity. Like who wants to tell a story that other people aren't into? Who wants to go all in on an intricate plot while Jonathan is trying to deal with pathos over in the corner? That seems utterly bizarre to me.
I think it should be pretty damn obvious why someone who values skilled play would care about the integrity of those wins and losses. That victory should be the result of fair situations where the rules are applied fairly. Same for losses.
When it comes to character focused play you often have to go to a pretty damn vulnerable place. If you are there emotionally and the people you are playing with have a detached view of the situation that gives them immense social power over you. It just does not feel very safe to me. I just can't go to where I want to go emotionally if I cannot trust the people I am playing with to not use that passion to achieve their story ends. I have similar feelings about acting with more performative actors. If they are not going to be vulnerable with me I cannot be vulnerable with them.
Even with more story oriented play I cannot imagine wanting to play with people who aren't there to enjoy your creativity. Like who wants to tell a story that other people aren't into? Who wants to go all in on an intricate plot while Jonathan is trying to deal with pathos over in the corner? That seems utterly bizarre to me.