Thomas Shey
Legend
I think the various posts on here have helped me figure out what I wasn't getting - thank you for taking the time to respond!!
My brain seems to be doing ok now getting from (B) how AA and Prabe explained the mechanics/idea of lore spouting and how necessary/likely it is that it results in the forge, over to (C) how many D&D games I've been in would take to the player suggesting a forge might be in the area. And I think I'm fine getting from how you have lore spouting work (call that A) over to (B) just fine. And similarly from (C) over to how many of the other things I'm used to in D&D work (call it D).
But trying to go from (A) to (D) was like things at the opposite end of a ring species trying to mate.
This can be a problem that can crop up with, honestly, a lot of systemic differences, some of them far less distinct than trad games in contrast to PbtA and their kin. Just going from D&D or its close kin to something in the BRP family can throw people off to no end, and that's just an issue of getting use to things like armor being a damage reducer as compared to a hit reducer (it makes a significant difference in how you assess combat with various monsters when your armor is a very strong factor in survivability against some and very weak against others).
People can have a terrible time getting their mindset reconnected at first, and some really never do it, over and above the question of whether they like the differences.