Bedrockgames
I post in the voice of Christopher Walken
While yes, clearly there are some people who will say something like 'your evil if you like evil orcs,' I don't think it is really that prevalent, especially when you divide by the sum total of gamers out there. Skimming Facebook or Reddit (or better yet, have a politically motivated friend collate them all into evidence that they are being attacked somehow*) can cherry pick a swath of this, but I'd need a lot of convincing that it is a trend. What I do see is a lot of calls for WotC (or Piazzo) to change how the default presentation of these humanoid species is presented in their published rulebooks. Not policing game tables, urging changes in specific corporate decisions.
*or am I the only one with a friend like this?
On this I largely agree. I think much of this is online discussion and that is different from what you encounter in the wild. But I do think sometimes these 'what should WOTC default to' discussions get incredibly divisive and heated (and I am not excluding myself from that----I get passionate too). If someone disagrees with me about whether the default orcs in D&D should be x, y or z, I don't care at all (in fact I like encountering other points of view on that). Where it bothers me, is when it becomes 'if you don't agree with me about D&D defaulting to X" you are morally bad or you are engaging in an 'ism' of some kind.