FitzTheRuke
Legend
My complaint in Morrus' thread and then in this one has never really been about the art: it is and has been about the way we allow ourselves to treat each other. I think Mr. Rinaldelli deserved a more patient, welcoming reception than he was given, especially in light of English not being his first language. I think beancounter deserved a more patient and charitable hearing than he was afforded, and I most definitely think it was way, way out of line for a few members to accuse him of bigotry and racism, of all things. I mean, come on....
Ideally, you are right, but I also felt that the accusations of "dogpiling" and "disingenuousness" were equally uncharitable to the other responders. It seemed to me that posters defending beancounter (and beancounter themself) were not holding themselves to the same standard that they were expecting from others. (And, in fact, caused most of the animosity that's been on this thread, whether they meant to or not).
A post with inflammatory statements (minor to major, depending on inference) caused inflammatory responses (minor to major, depending on inference). In my mind, everyone is responsible for how they take a post, as well as to how they give it. (Seeing as we all know how hard it is to have all our intents read clear with short, poorly-written bursts, as posts always are).
IMO, everyone should always be more charitable. We're all in this poor-communication form together.