Obryn
Hero
I know your gaming style well enough to know that 4e will never be your favorite RPG of all time, regardless of who DMs it.Could be that much of my dissatisfaction with 4e is a DM problem, but that's hard to say.

Objectively, though, I've heard things from both you and others in the game that make me scratch my head and wonder if your DM is a contributory factor. He likes to beat you guys over the head with a nerf stick, and discourage you from doing cool stuff, from what I can tell.
Also, IMHO, there are only a very small number of possibly-broken things in the supplements so far... There's a ton of option creep (which leads to slight power creep by letting you fine-tune your character better) but not a ton of power creep, IMHO. I can only name 3-4 out of thousands of items in AV that I'd have an issue with, for example. As a DM, it's easy to look at new stuff and assume it will be broken... but really, my own tendency is to allow it until I can see that it's broken.
-O