I appreciate the thought and civility you are putting into this discussion. But, I do think you are being inconsistent. I will try to explain.
I agree. Because he is living a life of poverty...not a life of no ownership. Eventhough he did not 'own' it, he would not even borrow it for an indefinite amount of time.
Taking a ride on a ship is a one time thing. (or maybe 2 if round trip) Letting the King send you on his ship, to rescue his daughter. It is similar to Mother Theresa letting someone fly her to Calcutta to help the poor.
This is easily comparable to riding a companions horse. *IF* it is equally short term. You need to be on the horse to get across the river, or speed is a requirement. (not a convenience.) As you *know* the Kings daughter is about to be sacrificed, and you have to get there before midnight.
But this is not comparable if it is a long term loan. In effect giving you 90% of the benefits of ownage.
Second is...it is not living in poverty. Rich Guy says "I have 7 mansions, and most of them are unused. So Ghandi, go ahead and hang out in my mansion in India. You can use my 'unused' limo to ride to the slums and help the poor" Just doesn't sound right.
Stay at his mansion while visiting? Sure. Use it long term? Not living in poverty.
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Zimri said:Ghandi would not (in my opinion) accepted the house being built for him.
I agree. Because he is living a life of poverty...not a life of no ownership. Eventhough he did not 'own' it, he would not even borrow it for an indefinite amount of time.
But this is not the same thing.If I can not ride on a horse when a party member has 2 extra unburdened horses and has offered to allow me to use one (though I could say yes to his ebony fly *see the text in BOED*) I certainly can not set foot on a ship that costs thousands of dollars more.
Taking a ride on a ship is a one time thing. (or maybe 2 if round trip) Letting the King send you on his ship, to rescue his daughter. It is similar to Mother Theresa letting someone fly her to Calcutta to help the poor.
This is easily comparable to riding a companions horse. *IF* it is equally short term. You need to be on the horse to get across the river, or speed is a requirement. (not a convenience.) As you *know* the Kings daughter is about to be sacrificed, and you have to get there before midnight.
But this is not comparable if it is a long term loan. In effect giving you 90% of the benefits of ownage.
But two items. One is 'unused'. There is a reason this character has two extra horses...why is that? He apparently thinks he needs them, can he still benefit from them if the VoPer is using one? If the Character really doesn't need those horses, isn't that wasteful? Wouldn't that be distatful to teh VoPer?I agree if you can borrow a donkey that was going unused you can borrow a warhorse that was going unused (and/or ride on the back of it).
Second is...it is not living in poverty. Rich Guy says "I have 7 mansions, and most of them are unused. So Ghandi, go ahead and hang out in my mansion in India. You can use my 'unused' limo to ride to the slums and help the poor" Just doesn't sound right.
Stay at his mansion while visiting? Sure. Use it long term? Not living in poverty.
Same with a PS2, you don't 'borrow' it at a friends house. But what if he said "I am not using it, take it home and keep it there. Play it whenever you want." Not very poverty stricken are you?IN RL do I borrow the glass I am drinking from at my friends house from my friend for the duration I am using it ? that seems odd I think we need a different word.
To me, that is a maybe. If it is a necessity, fine. If it is a convenience, not fine. A 'hero's welcome' parade. He can walk. Needing to care for the sick youth while transporting him to another town. Fine.Same with the carriage if someone is sending you to do something that requires you to show up in a carriage (or he is silly/generous enough to loan the party the carriage for travel to something he wants them to do) you should be allowed to ride inside of it. not be dragged behind it.
Those are all indefinite amounts of time. (I took out 'till the end of the ball, that is definite)The loans I speak of are not indefinite, there are some very real if not very quantifiable limits to them. Until I die, until you fall out of my favour, until I need/want the favour to enduntil your service to me ends.
My point exactly. Short term, usually okay. Long term, not okay. And even accepting accomodations, would likely be on the low end.I see no incongruity with Ghandi say accepting the use of a car, driver, and accomodations from the indian embassy or state department in whatever country he is visiting for the duration of his visit. If he were to take up residence in said country I would suspect he then would lose the privelleges of a "travelling dignitary"
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