"Because real women are physically weaker than real men, and because physical strength should never be used as the measure of a person's worth (because it isn't), then demanding that all RPGs provide for fantasy women who are as strong as men, because if they do not, then you say that they are sexist because in the game women would be inferior to men, is itself sexist, because by that standard, real women really are inferior to men."
Ok...So who do you think is actually making this somewhat convoluted claim? It certainly isn't me. At least I don't think so, since it mostly sounds like gibberish to me.
I'm not saying that it is wrong to create a fantasy RPG where female characters can be as strong as men. I run such a game right now, which should have been the first clue that your statement of my position was wrong!
Ah yes, something I had no knowledge of before now should be my first clue that I'm wrong. Absolutely brilliant reasoning!

I am saying that if you claim a universal standard that any portrayal of women as on average physically weaker than men is sexist, then there is something very strange about how you are viewing real women that does not add up to what I'd consider a healthy and affirming view.
I think MechaPilots stance is that it is sexist if you are only applying gender based modifiers to a single gender. Not so much str in particular, but only giving women a penalty in the game mechanics so that (everything else being equal) they actually are inferior to men within the game.
For example, it would be equally sexist if you gave males a penalty to Wisdom (because males are inherently more prone to reckless behavior and risk taking - testosterone giveth, testosterone taketh away), but didn't give women any stat penalties.
If 5e made it so that women had a penalty to Str and men had a penalty to Wis, then it's probably not sexist (or at least equally sexist to both genders, which I guess is better?). But it would certainly make it less likely to ever see a male cleric or a female heavy weapon fighter.
No, because you would then be literally saying that if women can't compete with men on equal terms in physical strength, then that women are of less value.
If you are playing a game that places a premium on Str for certain in game activities (i.e. heavy weapon users in 5e), and men have no such limitation in any other area of the game...then yes, that is exactly what the game rules are saying. i.e. Men can do everything, women can do almost everything.
Game balance wise, men should have a similar limitation in a different area (if you really are going to limit women's physical strength in the game). But realistically - people (both men and women) will still object, because then you are pushing men and women into stereotypical gender-based roles. Which is probably why D&D quickly dropped the gender based modifiers - why lose potential players over something that is really minor in relation to the rest of the game?
And I confess, owing to the reoccurrence of them, that I'm having a certain difficulty believing that these strawmen you are throwing up to describe my position are actually based off of sincere misunderstandings, and not being offered out of ill will.
I'd probably object to this if I understood it.
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