I'm not ignoring that. As ought to be clear, not only do I think that's the point of alignment I don't think it's an issue at all. When I play Star Wars I don't get too hung up on the fact that "Light" side characters have a moral system imposed on them that differs from my own. That's part of the setting.
So? I don't understand how this is a problem unless in real life you are morally opposed to being judged even in the context of a game.
Sure. I can of a few. If I'm being immoral I would want my friend to confront me. I might not take it the same way from a stranger, because no one likes being called on their vices, but a friend absolutely should be trying to gently tell you that you are out of line because they are a friend. Like, "Hey friend, I notice you've been really throwing it back lately, and it's that much drinking, I really don't think it is good for you.", is a very friend thing to say.