I made the mistake of checking out a long thread I hadn't really looked at before - and stumbled on something I think I've only seen mentioned before in other very different contexts.
OMG. The reason they don't seem to be understanding your point is essentially no one cares about that distinction when they play. They barely care about it on here very often. I am worried that you actually care so much. Why!?!?!?!
I mean, move on to something important like Stouts vs. Porters, Yams vs. Sweet Potatoes (I think I actually know that one), or Soggy Cardboard vs NY Style.