Hex08
Hero
You did and you do.No I did not, and no I am not. To not be aware of these issues is to be willfully ignorant. You don't have to be "online" to recognize racism in popular culture. You are entirely too forgiving of racists. That reflects badly on you. Being anti-racist is hard work but it needs to be done, even in gaming.
I am not forgiving of racists but I am forgiving of the limitations of normal people. No one can be as informed as you expect them to be. You are simply unwilling to accept that no one is able to be aware of everything. TTRPG's are a niche hobby, and a small subset of those people probably follow it online or are even intimately familiar with the rules/rulebooks. No one anywhere has any obligation to deeply informed on every topic. I envy your god-like omniscience. To be so self-righteous and self-assured is a luxury few have but one that, unfortunately, some embrace even though it is an obvious illusion.
The people in any gaming group who are casual players have no obligation to read the Monster Manual. They have no obligation to be aware of the racial implications of the presentation of fictional monsters in a book they have never read. Even those who have read them but have never made the connection that some see does not make them racist.
That you are willing to make badly thought out assumptions about other people reflects badly on you and for that you have my pity.