BroccoliRage said:
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We're never going to agree on this, the grognards are on one side of the fence and the d20 fanciers on the other. Nobody expects you to admit that d20 is not D&D, you're not going to get the reverse from any of us. It's moot.
I'd have to disagree, unless your definition of grognard is someone who doesn't believe 3.x "D&D" is D&D. Then grognard becomes a self adopted title for those who agree with you.
If on the other hand you adopt the definition of grognard as someone who played wargames before D&D came out and started with OD&D before AD&D came out, then as that person (and my friends can attest) 3.x is a D&D to us from a mechanics point of view, even though we don't prefer to play it for reasons of "feel."
Fast forward to the 21st century and there are those who want to, to use a phrase form the '70's, "put their trip on us", i.e., replace our subjective view of what D&D is, worth their subjective view. That to me, this more of a supposed AD&D thing based on editorials not an OD&D thing. If you want to talk about things objectively, e.g., mechanics, cool. But evaluations based on such subjective experiences as "feel," "play style" will get nowhere.
And yes, sites like ENWorld and e-mail correspondance with 3.x players convinved me that there is more similar to disimilar in the games. They also overcame my initial very negative gut reaction to 3.x books, the art, layout and rule changes. It's not matter of conversion, I don't play 3.x and probably never will. Finally, they had a open inclusive spirit, which I associate with OD&D, and that sense the spirit of those I corresponed with was more in line with my biased, subjective recollection of the good 'ole days of D&D.
Now 3.x may not "feel" like D&D but that is purely subjective and we can't really discuss that objectively, although we can share why we feel that way. Or we could take a vote. But who gets to vote? Everyone? Only those that started in 1974 when the game came out? Do you need to have wargame or miniatures experience prior to D&D? Can you vote if you sarted with AD&D or BD&D? Can you vote if you started in the 80's? When it comes to the subjective evaluation are we looking for those who had first hand experience with the "spirit" of D&D when it can out in 1974 and before the first revision in 1977?