Dude, it's a 3 day weekend?
Sweeeet!
Um, Ken, I understand to a point. I have always been an extremist, which makes it hard to get along with other people a lot of the time. Up to the time I went to college I didn't really understand other people. Then I stopped stressing so much over trying to figure out what other people were doing and why and just did my own things for my own reasons. For some odd reason, people suddenly got interested in what I was doing. WTF?
So I was watching this cute girl dance once, and she was damn cute, but the dance looked damn stupid. Then I looked at her face and saw how into it she was, that she was doing something that made her feel good, not for how it looked to other people, just because it made her feel good. And the dance didn't look stupid at all to me anymore, just a persons portrayal of their feelings.
So, my advice is, be yourself. Do your thing. Drop the 'their loss' crap, it's a self-defense mechanism but it isn't entirely accurate - it's really 'everyone's loss' - and not being entirely accurate makes it, partly, a lie - and there you are lying to yourself. So don't, if that's not who you are. People who have similar interests and tastes and ideas, whether it's in the straightforward (like carrots or cats) or the more meta (experiencing new things, meeting new people, NOT meeting new people, etc) and have the same basic reactions and understanding, tend to feel more comfortable together.
People are confusing. Women are REALLY confusing. Enjoy being confused, or find the least confusing you can. Try going to a country where you don't know the language. I spent 2 years in Poland, still can't speak the language and don't 'get' many of their customs. Wasn't entirely different from U.S. culture, but still pretty strange. Entirely changed my viewpoint on assuming that certain reactions are necessary or appropriate (getting angry or laughing or crying, etc). It was pretty liberating really, as confusing as it was.
So, here I am, approaching a 3-day weekend (it's really a 3-day weekend???) and babbling about anything related to understanding women (and people in general), or not understanding them. I still have issues with my girlfriend (who is the coolest chick I have ever met) because, sometimes, I still want to do some things 100% my way. But I have learned to pick my battles. If I care about something a lot, I insist on it, if not, I don't. If you want things ALL your way ALL the time, then either find someone EXACTLY like yourself, or expect them to go do things THEIR way sometimes.
Aaron
p.s. I think all that babbling meant, stick to your guns and be who you are, but if you're going to be with someone, you have to Love them for who THEY are too.