billd91
Not your screen monkey (he/him) 🇺🇦🇵🇸🏳️⚧️
Not to rain on ggeilman's and airwalkrr's parade, just reporting a different opinion. I feel the player character is very much the player's affair, and the DM should keep hands off as far as possible. Of course, if there is a balance issue that becomes serious, something might have to be done, but arbitrarily taking away something that is an important part of a character's concept is not legit.
I couldn't agree to a DM being hands off. It's the DM's job to make sure the game works smoothly, and that means allowing or disallowing concepts or other things that would be problematic.