Vaalingrade
Legend
Define the last 50 years of D&D culture. Other games don't give the GM this mystified status.Bad dming is instilling a table culture thats not just afraid to just talk these things out, but will have to repetitively do so every single time.
Here's the thing: Not everyone is exclusively playing with a regular group. People pick up games online. They go down and play Official Adventurer's League, they play at cons. You and I?My group has an unwritten running list of random things we can do when we want to just go completely off the cuff in whatever game we're playing, and that all just built up over time.
A table shouldn't be relitigating intimidating the peasant every time the party passes through a new town, and when there is something genuinely new to hash out, there shouldn't be this culture where you're arguing yourself out of doing it out of fear for the whims of the DM.
We're very lucky to not have to deal with the slot machine of who you're going to play with. But we shouldn't forget others do and that the lack of rules and cohesion are a very real issue for them.