I've seen, and experienced this as well, on many threads, on this very forum. One of the key reasons I've been largely inactive for the better part of 2012. I just couldn't handle the shrieking and harping about "allowing" the designers to put any "4e ideas" in "MY D&D" - all paraphrased and fully caricatured arguments. Except, oh wait, they're not. Those things have been said, both to me and others, on these very forums. No, I'm not going to go back the better part of a year and dig them up, you'll just have to take me at my word.
Those posts are made. But, from my observation, they're usually not by posters who post a lot in the same thread. These really long discussions are almost universally had by much more respectful people.
No, what MY problem is, is folk trying to tell me, or WotC, what they can and can't, should or shouldn't, support or put in 'Next' and a lot of it really does boil down to Muggles Can't Have Nice Things, in some folks' eyes. You know what? Fine. To those gamers, I say, "play what you like" - but don't try to dictate what others are allowed to like, and in this context, advocate for - at least as a core OPTION. I don't think that's asking much.
I replied to this because you said, and I quote, "As soon as we start talking about the "believability" of martial abilities and what that should be "allowed" to represent, it becomes a "Fighters Can't Have Nice Things" argument. There's really no way around it." Now
that's an extreme position. People can't talk about what they find believable when it comes to martial abilities or they want fighters to suck. No, man, not buying it. I get that some people want that, but I just can't agree with your statement here.
I wouldn't even be bringing this up if it weren't such a deep and obvious divide between which side makes judgements about what is or should be "allowed," and which side just pushes for its preference to be represented and supported. Just my personal experience with this forum, perhaps, or perhaps not representative, but clearly not an outlying extreme POV.
People are advocating for what they want. There's a lot of stuff I don't like, and say "I don't want to see that." I'm okay with it being optional (in a truly opt-in sense). But, yes, while a lot of people say "the game shouldn't allow this," I see many who say "it should have it." And that goes for all sorts of things, from "process-sim" to "narrative control", and on and on. We have "Fighters should have the ability to spend resources to control the world and make the player's wants happen" and we have "Fighters shouldn't get any ability that can't be explained from their own perspective or from their own mundane capability." People are just stating what they want, and both sometimes phrase it as what the game "should" have in it. I don't think it's nearly so one-sided as you might see it. But, that's from where I'm sitting, and I could be wrong. As always, play what you like
The entire argument about Come And Get It is about how fighters can have abilities the speaker doesn't like.
Right.
It's not saying anything profound about 4e that there is a single heroic tier power that people dislike. But mysteriously it's the one that wastes an awful lot of people' time. And when it is pointed out that it is an optional ability that people only take if they want to for some reason this gets ignored.
I actually addressed this within the last couple days (probably this thread? I'm not 100%).
As always play what you like is the perfect tagline for why I have yet to see one single good argument why 4e should not include even the pre-errata version of Come And Get It. It is literally a pure argument that people should not be allowed to play what they like.
If you don't like Come And Get It as a power
no one is forcing you to take it even if you play a fighter.
Which is to say exactly the same thing @
Nemesis Destiny has just said and @
Obryn has just agreed with. Every argument ever raised against Come And Get It is an argument that no player anywhere should get an ability that some people like and want. It is a strictly optional ability that you don't have if you don't take. But according to one side this should not be allowed.
Kind of. When I talked about why people might still object, I mentioned it being in the core books means that, from my experience, it'll always be a more "accepted" power/ability than anything ever found in a splat book. There's no disclaimer (like, say, the Time Travel power in Mutants and Masterminds). And, it's a good mechanical power for Defenders, which Fighters are in 4e. And just because I may not want it, it doesn't mean someone else won't grab it (I don't have veto power on their character creation options unless I'm DMing). And, in most online builds I see of Fighters, they have Come And Get It. It's not like it's not widespread.
The thing I mentioned is that while yes, you can avoid it, it being in the core PHB/MM/DMG has some things that'll rub people the wrong way. Now, there's a lot of mechanics like that (and I mentioned that in my post, too), but some seem more grating than others (Come And Get It gets a lot more flak than the 3e Knight's taunt, for example -which, for the record, I also disliked). Obviously there's varying degrees of "believability" when designing these powers, and aiming for a middle ground isn't bad, in my mind (the Will save errata was a great step).
But, while people don't like it and voice it, there's reasons beyond "I don't like it, and therefore nobody else should use it either." As I've said, that's a few posters, but not the majority. Mostly, I think it's more of a "I don't like it and would prefer to not deal with it, and it seems pervasive." Fighters are a common and well-loved class in D&D, and, as I said, most builds I've seen have used it. If you have a problem with the power (which it seems like a lot of people do), and you've got a Fighter in the group (which I think a lot of people do), and that player takes Come And Get It (which I think probably happens, if they hit 7th level [I think]), then I see why this objection comes up.
But, again, most posters in this thread right now are saying "I don't like it" or "I don't want it or powers/abilities like it assumed" or the like. But, I think most posters who engage in these long debates are reasonable enough that they'd be okay with it being an option. And that' pretty much not at all what I'm getting from your post, here. As always, play what you like
