Ratskinner
Adventurer
I just want to point out that I'm seeing an awful lot of 'othering' from a certain camp in this thread towards gamers that like a narrative thrust in their D&D. I think that it's wrong to assume or claim that it is a necessarily small number of gamers, particularly as most of these arguments are based on anecdotal evidence, which I don't think is very helpful in trying to present that particular case.
It would be just as easy (and pointless) for me to say that I think the simulationist crowd is small and insignificant because I've never or rarely seen people play that way (which is in my case true), but I know that my experience is far from universal. I'm not even going to pretend it is.
So, that said, posts containing things like, 'most gamers,' 'many of us,' and, 'the majority of,' are, to my eyes, basically unhelpful at best and blatantly misleading at worst, unless you happen to have any hard stats to back them up (and even then, their origin should rightfully be questioned).
Just my opinion, of course. Argue however you wish, but those kinds of comments make it hard to take seriously any argument based on them.
ehh...I see plenty of othering flying in all sorts of directions over these issues. People generally don't have as much perspective as they think they do.
Having said that, I do suspect that strongly or primarily Narrative gamers are probably a less-common form (I confess to being one.) However, I suspect that Narrative is very common as the secondary agenda for most gamers. I also think that D&D (especially back in the day) makes for a poor vehicle for this kind of play. Ergo, I suspect that however low that fraction of Nar-first gamers, it appears even smaller within the D&D community because so many have moved on to greener narrative pastures as they have become available. All supposition, of course.
...also "many" is not really a hard standard to meet. Its tantamount to saying "there exist more than two". You can say that about almost anything gaming-related. On the other hand, its a much weaker claim of probative value. "Most" and "majority" are much harder than "many". The real problem here is (as you mention) that bringing up any of them immediately puts the discussion into hearsay territory because none of us has any good data to actually cite.