Hey man, I said I'm fine with it being optional, so don't shoot me. I was saying reasons why "but it's an option" may not satisfy
other people. So, aim your shots elsewhere -I'm just the messenger. As always, play what you like
Oh please! You are asking for the messenger not to be shot. When you have come in here doing nothing more than repeat talking points that almost everyone on one side of the argument finds to be almost entirely without merit and has read literally probably a hundred times before. As such your "This is what other people might think" comes off as something like either "I'm just saying" or the sort of letter which starts "As a lifelong member of the Democratic/Republican/Tory/Labour/Monster Raving Loony Party I must say that..." followed by a list of the opposition's talking points.
A claim to neutrality in any contentious matter needs to be demonstrated. And right now, you haven't. You've merely repeated partisan talking points and then claimed to be just the messenger when you have been responded to as if you actually hold the points you claim you are trying to explain. Whether or not you actually hold the arguments you present,
own them. You are supporting those arguments - and so far as I can tell this isn't an active devil's advocate situation. The purpose of your writing
is to support them.
If you are genuinely going in as someone who is trying to explain a point of view to people who don't get it in the middle of a heated debate and are a sincere neutral then your technique is
terrible. To be taken seriously as a neutral while trying to make an argument that is indellibly associated with partisans in a partisan debate you start by accepting
literally every other point made by that side you can or otherwise encouraging them to identify with you, and doing it explicitely and openly. If you don't do that, any claims you're just a messenger come off like a mixture of "I'm just saying" and "As a lifelong member of the ____ party..."
Or to summarise if your arguments are nothing but partisan arguments from one side then you'll be treated as a partisan of that side.
And with the specific arguments you are repeating, your "As always play what you like

" only adds fuel to the fire. Because the arguments are telling people to not play what they like. So the counterpoint between a post that can be summed up as "Playing what you like is badwrongfun" and the tagline "As always play what you like

" appears patronising even if that wasn't the intent.
I thought you were setting this up for the double standard, when the conversation had been broadly about fear effects in 3.Xe and the forced movement being acceptable to some posters.
Which
non-magic fear effects in 3.X cause forced movement? Magic can justify anything - this is where the "Fighters can't get nice things" meme comes from.
I'm saying that groups might have individual players who get their immersion disrupted by these things. It's a table issue. It'd be resolved by the table (and at my table, by me, since I'm likely running the game, and I get final say). I've said "no elves" before, and I've said "no spellcasters" before. I have no problem doing this. So, if there was a problem at my table, I'd talk with my players, and then make a decision.
So have I (for the record 4e works extremely well with no spellcasters). I just don't see the need to write reams on saying "An optional class feature that a lot of people like in a game I don't like is bad and wrong and a reason no one should play the game".
This is basically a "your Come And Get It power pulls me out of immersion" for 4e, or "your Scry and Fry is ruining my fun" for 3.X. People don't like having their game disrupted. The table can decide on how to deal with that.
There's two
major differences between the CAGI and the Scry And Fry examples. Both involve optional abilities - but by default Scry and Fry takes two spells available
as in character choices as well as out of game - CAGI must have been chosen out of game. As long as scry and teleport are both known magic, a wizard needs to have a good reason in character not to try and get both by level 10. The second is CAGI doesn't make a whole lot of planned adventure redundant and have massive impact on a world's logistics, unlike Teleport. The difference between a world with CAGI and a lightly cinematic one without is almost unnoticeable.
The point is that wizards were never overpowered as some have suggested. At worst, spells were overpowered.
Two entire schools (Conjuration and Transmutation) were full of overpowered spells.
And, to bring in another point, if there's a typical style of play or a way that wizards are in most games, that "average" wizard picks mostly direct damage spells and utility spells. The average cleric picks random spells and burns them all for cures. The average druid picks cures because he can't spontaneously cast them and mixes in a few utility spells. None of those characters is remotely overpowered, even in 3.5 at high level with every supplement you like.
In short, a game set up to deliberately reward system mastery (according to Monte Cook) only has problems when people have system mastery, read the rule books, and think how to use a really high intelligence or strength. Or just think like sneaky bastards as a default.
If you don't like angel summoners and BMX bandits (I still have no idea what those are),
A series of scetches by Mitchell and Webb (British comedians). Entertaining in its own right.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zFuMpYTyRjw
they're every bit as optional as CaGI or any other specific character ability someone wants to beat on.
It's simply that the 4e PHB has four such abilities. Total. The 3.5 PHB has loads including an entire class with Wild Shape as a major class feature. Three classes out of thirteen in the 3.5 PHB have polymorphing (four if you count the Bard getting Alter Self) - one with it as a full blown class feature. A fourth class is capable of self-buffing to beat up fighters. And the Bard gets the utterly broken Glibness spell.
All four and a half primary casters get scrying. All druids and clerics of the right level can cast it effectively as a class feature.
Two classes get teleport. The Druid has a weaker version effectively as a class feature (all druids of the right level know and can prepare it).
Three and a half primary casters get AoE no SR save or suck spells that can turn a whole battle into a mopping up excercise. (The cleric doesn't).
In fact the core only cleric is a pretty reasonable class. A bit on the strong side but probably only Tier 3. The wizard and druid (and to a lesser extent the sorceror) on the other hand aren't.
The unwillingness of certain individuals to judge all versions of the game by the same standards is unfortunate.
Yes. I don't judge 3.5 just by there being a few specific spells that are ridiculously overpowered and entirely optional. You, however, appear to be judging 4e by a few very optional abilities.
Except that the guns are squirt guns that have to be retrofitted to fire bullets.
You mean that the guns are in fact grenade launchers and come with a mix of paintballs and grenades. The only one of the casters that needs any retrofitting at all is the cleric.
I don't consider Fireball a poor choice.
Given what it has to compete with, I consider it an extremely poor one.
That being said, your statement seems to postulate that houserules and/or fiat are atypical and/or undesirable. Precisely the opposite is the case. D&D posits a DM, and it's built on rule zero. DMs can do one of two things: they can either choose to alter or rewrite or ignore rules to fit their needs, or they can choose to use a rule as written. Either way, it's the DM's choice (i.e. fiat). Not all games postulate a Dungeon Master or similar figure, but D&D most certainly does.
Houserules and/or fiat are not of themselves undesirable.
Needing houserules because the game is broken out of the box is undesirable. Making the DM make up for the mistakes of the designers that have been paid so the DM doesn't need to bother with fixing the game and can instead houserule to customise the game is undesirable.