And?I'd say it pretty clearly says you don't like their play style.
Upthread, you said that choosing who to play with, on the basis of whether or not one would enjoy playing with them, was tantamount to policing them.
That is not true.
Now you're saying that choosing not to play with someone because one wouldn't enjoy it is saying that one wouldn't enjoy their playstyle.
That is true, but seems irrelevant. Telling someone that you don't enjoy playing with them is not policing them. Lots of people do things that I don't enjoy. And they're welcome to. I'm not stopping them. I'm just not doing it with them.
Upthread you have, multiple times, suggested that a player might play his/her "honourable" character as Brave, Brave Sir Robin. Now, I assume you realise that Brave, Brave Sir Robin - as presented by Monty Python - is a joke. So I assume that the player you're talking about is also playing in a comedic or otherwise over-the-top, ironic style. I don't mind small amounts of humour in the game - eg the backstory to the dwarf fighter PC that I have already set out upthread - but I mostly enjoy, and GM, a serious game. That means that I don't want to play with that comedic player. But s/he is welcome to find another group who want to play comedic D&D - I'm not stopping her.
(A different scenario would be where a player wants to play an honourable PC, but the game mechanics make that suicidal for the PC. Low-level classic D&D has this feature; low-level Rolemaster can also exhibit it. This is a case of mechanics/genre mis-match. One reason I enjoy GMing 4e is that it does not have this sort of problem.)
Because you and [MENTION=48965]Imaro[/MENTION] called me a hypocrite and implied I am a liar.I'm not sure why the issue becomes such a personal one to you.
Have you read the game rules?I am saying you can sincerely believe that your co-opting of the familiar fell within the rules of the game while others can sincerely believe it was not.
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it constituted the GM taking control of a player resource in a manner not provided for in the rules
The game rules specify that the GM may play the familiar with a "light touch". What is your basis for disputing that the player and I in question had established the relevant parameters of "light touch" between us?
The game rules also make it clear that resource depletion, including resource depletion that extends beyond the normal recovery period, is a standard consequence of skill challenge resolution. Which is what happened in the episode in question.
An astronomer and a flat-earther may have a disagreement about whether the earth is (roughly) spherical, but only one of those opinions is worth listening to, however sincerely both may be held.
This is also incorrect. The loss of the resource was not unilateral. It was a component of action resolution within a skill challenge.Although my initial comments on the issue were not directed to rules legality anyway, but to the fact that you had removed a PC resource unilaterally
By "several" you mean "one". [MENTION=48965]Imaro[/MENTION].in the opinion of several posters, most of which have a better grasp of the 4e rules than I do
Who knows? But that is not the case that [MENTION=22779]Hussar[/MENTION] and I have expressed primary concern with. We have expressed concern with the case where the player believes that s/he is honouring the relevant ideals, and the GM takes a different view.the player was OK with you removing a character resource based on his behaviour. He chose to create a situation of conflict with Vecna which placed that character resource at risk. I wonder whether, had you been playing a traditional mechanical alignment game, he might not be OK with you removing a character resource which was contingent on maintaining a specific alignment, given his choice of character