FitzTheRuke
Legend
Man, I'm starting to better understand your perspective. I am glad and grateful to report that I haven't played with anyone (of maybe hundreds? many dozens of people, anyhow) in close to 25 years* who would complain about that sort of thing. I guess they're still out there!Yea... Every time they did it I would load up the world map & remind them of the dragon of desolation a few hexes away only to have them scoff because it was one point lower in ac or whatever . They were outraged I "didn't tell [them they] would need to fight the dragon of desolation if it woke up"
* I had similar experiences with 3.5, which is the edition that I feel gave the most fodder to rules lawyers, the bad sort of power gamers, and depowered the DM the most. I'm starting to think, based on your evidence, that it is less of an edition problem, and more of a "who you happen to get" roll of the "dice". I assume those players are out there, but I am fortunate to play with people who "play nice with others".
It might have to do with my after-hours game being good friends who (for the most part) have similar desires for the game, and similar "mature" ways of treating other people respectfully, and the rest of the time I run games, I'm Teaching Newbies - and they follow my lead. It's possible (probable even) that anyone who wants to complain just doesn't return... hmm. I'd have to think about that.