Ulorian - Agent of Chaos
Legend
Wow. This is a super disjointed post. You are clearly upset and I'm sorry that I have contributed to that. I am not your enemy and I will respond to you in kind.Earlier…
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This is absurd. People requesting clarification, such as me, did so in order to not make an assumption about the intent of the term. I did not want to assume it was being used pejoratively, even though context clues suggest it probably was. It's best to be charitable, however, so instead of making that assumption, ask for clarification instead. The request for clarification was therefore to give beancounter the benefit of the doubt. And to those people who were trying not to assume that it was intended as an inflammatory pejorative (as you now say it explicitly is), you claim that they were treating beancounter unfairly, when in fact they're the ones attempting to not make assumptions. Bananas.
I see what you are saying. I am going to remind you that you are not being personally attacked. You feel that your intent was that you were giving the benefit of the doubt as to the intent of beancounter. That's fine. I'm not going to crawl through the thread to assign personal blame to anyone.
What I'm saying to you, as I said to a previous respondent, is that you may have been carrying previous baggage into this argument. Is that possible? I'm asking a genuine question, no repercussions.
My opinion is this: regardless of what you felt at the time, beancounter was not implying the thoughts you assumed he was. Your personal history with this topic might want it to be so, but that does not make it a fact.
In any case, try looking at it this way. If you were beancounter, and you made a statement, then a number of people came at you with comments whose baggage you were not aware of, and that implied you were a horrible person, how would you respond?