Lord Pendragon said:If I may ask a question myself: how do you feel, in D&D, about a VoP character who lives in the lap of luxury? Perhaps the character is the good friend of a king or baron, and that friend lavishes him with expensive gifts, always pays for him to eat the best food and live under the most opulent conditions.
Would you still consider such a character to be faithfully adhering to his Vow of Poverty? Personally, I would not. He's living a wealthy life, even if he doesn't own any of the wealth he's taking advantage of, and that's not enough for a god to grant you a boatload of special powers. A Vow of Poverty is about living humbly, not about making sure you don't own any of the luxuries you enjoy.
Or so I rule it in my game.![]()
If my friend is a lord/baron/ruler/wealthy whatever and I am providing him spiritual/moral counsel and he/she decides to keep me close at hand (in his house and dining hall) so I can provide worthy council/protection and in so doing I live in/on his estate, and need to dress the part of advisor wearing silk or whatnot, and need to eat meals with her/him so long as I OWN and MAKE DECISIONS regarding any of that wealth, and still maintain contributions to the poor, and I do not allow his generousity to sway any advice I give him, or any admonitions I might give him regarding his actions then I wouldn't have any issues.
Bearing in mind that at any time he can choose to throw me out, and I have nothing, or I may choose to leave if he acts in ways that break my world view but I will leave with NOTHING.
Same thing if I have a suitor that wants to take me to a ball, he will have to get me appropriate attire. I can't keep it afterwards (heck odds are it'll be ripped or something by the end).