Oh please! You are asking for the messenger not to be shot. When you have come in here doing nothing more than repeat talking points that almost everyone on one side of the argument finds to be almost entirely without merit and has read literally probably a hundred times before. As such your "This is what other people might think" comes off as something like either "I'm just saying" or the sort of letter which starts "As a lifelong member of the Democratic/Republican/Tory/Labour/Monster Raving Loony Party I must say that..." followed by a list of the opposition's talking points.
Calm down. Really. If you keep up this tone, we're done talking for now.
I am "just saying" how other people feel, because you (and others) have said "I don't see why this is a problem, when you never have to play with the power." I'm saying "here's why some people have a problem still." Nothing more than that.
A claim to neutrality in any contentious matter needs to be demonstrated. And right now, you haven't. You've merely repeated partisan talking points and then claimed to be just the messenger when you have been responded to as if you actually hold the points you claim you are trying to explain. Whether or not you actually hold the arguments you present, own them. You are supporting those arguments - and so far as I can tell this isn't an active devil's advocate situation. The purpose of your writing is to support them.
I suggest you pay closer attention to my posting history, then. I have absolutely no problem "owning" my personal views. Right now, though, I tried to answer a question, for clarity's sake. Things were starting to get heated in the thread, and as someone who enjoys civility, I tried to answer a question to bring the heat down. But me being "partisan" and not "owning" my personal views? That is literally amusing to me.
If you are genuinely going in as someone who is trying to explain a point of view to people who don't get it in the middle of a heated debate and are a sincere neutral then your technique is terrible. To be taken seriously as a neutral while trying to make an argument that is indellibly associated with partisans in a partisan debate you start by accepting literally every other point made by that side you can or otherwise encouraging them to identify with you, and doing it explicitely and openly. If you don't do that, any claims you're just a messenger come off like a mixture of "I'm just saying" and "As a lifelong member of the ____ party..."
Or to summarise if your arguments are nothing but partisan arguments from one side then you'll be treated as a partisan of that side.
And here I was, basing all of my self worths and stuffs on how some dude on the internet views me...
In other news, I'm getting along fine with manbearcat, now. All it took was civil conversation. And that works for me.
And with the specific arguments you are repeating, your "As always play what you like

" only adds fuel to the fire. Because the arguments are telling people to not play what they like. So the counterpoint between a post that can be summed up as "Playing what you like is badwrongfun" and the tagline "As always play what you like

" appears patronising even if that wasn't the intent.
This just means that people are missing what I'm posting. And my ability to communicate only goes so far.
Which non-magic fear effects in 3.X cause forced movement? Magic can justify anything - this is where the "Fighters can't get nice things" meme comes from.
You mean for PCs? Because I don't know. Also, I know where "Fighters can't have nice things" comes from. I'm not sure why you brought that up.
So have I (for the record 4e works extremely well with no spellcasters). I just don't see the need to write reams on saying "An optional class feature that a lot of people like in a game I don't like is bad and wrong and a reason no one should play the game".
I agree! But then again, I think that Come And Get It is probably only a component of that argument. And, still, I think the conclusion of "no one should play the game" is extreme and unhelpful. It's all those other people who talk about it as an immersion issue that they'd like to overcome so that they feel better playing the game that I'd like to listen to.
There's two major differences between the CAGI and the Scry And Fry examples. Both involve optional abilities - but by default Scry and Fry takes two spells available as in character choices as well as out of game - CAGI must have been chosen out of game. As long as scry and teleport are both known magic, a wizard needs to have a good reason in character not to try and get both by level 10. The second is CAGI doesn't make a whole lot of planned adventure redundant and have massive impact on a world's logistics, unlike Teleport. The difference between a world with CAGI and a lightly cinematic one without is almost unnoticeable.
This is all true (to a degree -you can have a Sorcerer, say, that doesn't get his spell choices in-game). But the impact on the world is much, much, much bigger with Scry and Fry than with Come And Get It, I agree. But, my point stands either way; people obviously object to both, and this becomes an issue at the table. As always, play what you like
