As long as i get to be the frog
I say this with all sincerity. What you say above comes across an awful lot like:Unfortunately, I've seen this attitude down here in the deep South.
Down here, certain people will ignore blacks so long as they stay in the background and quietly lives their lives, but if the black individual shows signs of immoral behavior (such as stealing), they're considered the worst sort of scum on earth who need to be pruned immediately. A lot of times these sort of folks will claim that they aren't bigots or racists, even so far as to say "I have several black friends", when in reality they simply don't want to think about blacks existing and are ready to pounce on them the moment they "step out of line".
"White people, you should be okay with black people stealing and doing other immoral behavior. If you aren't okay with that then you are a bigot and a racist that doesn't want to think about black people and are just out to pounce on them the moment they step out of line no matter how many black friends you have."
I doubt you meant it that way.