Harr said:
The second thing that would happen is that you would all realise that Dungeons and Dragons is not the game you're all wanting to play.
The third thing that would happen is that you would put all the D&D stuff away and start making up and playing Fantasy Shop Tycoon. And you'd have fun with it since that's what you wanted in the first place... And thus the game succeeds in letting you have fun, by giving you a clear and unambiguous signal that you need to look somewhere else for that kind of fun, which is the entire point.
Note: Please, I'm not trying to hurt your sensibilities by saying that your kind of fun is "wrong". Just as there's no shame to saying you want a different kind of fun, neither is there any shame in saying you should find THAT kind of fun somewhere else. People really need to understand that already.
You're pretty much right.
Unfortunately, for me, I have played D&D since it was just D&D. Throught advanced, 2nd edition, 3rd edition, 3.5, etc.
One big benefit was that everyone else played D&D. I could walk into a game store in a new town and find a D&D group almost immediately.
Now along comes 4e, which very nearly destroys any desire to play the system as written.
But it's still the king. It's still far far easier to find a 4e group posting a flyer in a game store than it is to find any other game system posted in that store.
And it's impossible to find a group playing with my own homebrew system.
I could put up my own flyer, and have done so several times in the past. But those past flyers appealed to the largest group of role-players: the D&D crowd.
Now, going forward, putting up a flyer means appealing to a much smaller audience.
So, the game I have loved since the 1970s has cast me aside. That's hard to take.
And going forward, my gaming options are severely limited because now I have to pick a new system and find the few other players who also play that system. Or I have to houserule the tragically defective D&D into something it isn't, then convince players that my houserules are the right houserules.
It's all very sad.
I already long for the days when D&D actually made sense and appealed to nearly everyone.
So I fight it.
I kick and scream.
I visit boards like this and point out the flaws, and offer suggestions or solutions to some of them.
I want D&D to come to its senses and fix these broken things, so we can all get back to loving the system that has nurtured us through 4 decades.
I don't like that my choices are to downgrade to an inferior system, or stick with a system that has recently become inferior.
I want my superior system back.