Yeah, it can go that way.
But, for my money, far more often people want to pretend that their dislike of something is somehow objectively true and then, when you point out that no, it's not actually objectively true, people then lose their poop. "I don't like something" is a perfectly fine thing to say. But, when someone says, "well, why don't you like it" and you tell them, "Because it's crap", well, that's not really communicating anything. If all people want is some pats on the head and validation for their preferences, fine. But, don't pretend that it's something that it's not.
More often than not, though, it's a failure of two people to communicate accurately how they individually interpret their preferences. You can't
just lay it on the feet of one person. It can be equally frustrating to the other person as well, who has to keep explaining their preferences! Which, you know ... that can be obnoxious in its own way.
Look, very few arguments are truly about
objective things. But imagine, for example, you are in a conversation with your significant other. The temperature in the house is set to 72 degrees (Fahrenheit ... 22.2 C). Your SO says it is "too cold." You say it is "too hot." The actual
objective measure of the temperature isn't going to change, but I can guarantee you that if you keep demanding that your SO explain themselves as to why your SO doesn't like the temperature .... you will get it colder ... because it's about to get REAL COLD.
In the end, there is a difference between having a conversation about why people like (or don't like) something as opposed to demanding that people justify themselves to you. I do think that it is better to self-interrogate as to why you have the preferences that you do! In order to truly critique or communicate, you have to be able to articulate why things "work" - both in terms of effect on a supposed audience, and the effect on you. But it is also certainly true that at a certain point, preferences are irreducible or difficult to discuss or even irrational.
When someone says they don't like something because it's crud, they are communicating something- they don't like it! And they don't feel the need to further communicate with you or justify their preferences. If you are unfamiliar with the phenomenon, go to Fenway Park and ask Sully from Southie why he likes the Red Sox, and proceed to interrogate him as to objective facts regarding the Yankees.
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