Dr. Strangemonkey
First Post
Hmm, I should probably modify my stance against ineffectual.
If the question is simply whether or not women are attracted to ineffectual men, than a lot of my prior rant is all off.
I imagine most heterosexual men would also say they would not be attracted to someone who lets others take advantage of them, has no talents or abilities, and needs to be rescued all the time. High-maintenance is a polite slang phrase for such a character.
If on the other hand, you were to translate the real scenario behind romance adventures into more general terms I am certain you would get a roughly universal response from both genders.
Try asking women,
"How would you like to go on an exciting adventure free of real risk and full of moral accomplishment, athletic achievement, and exotic beauty at the end of which we hook you up with a cute guy?"
The guy described at the begining of the thread didn't sound to ineffectual so much as poorly posed, noone wants a muscle bound anything hanging uncomfortably, and dangerously, off of their leg. Now if the muscle bound guy had been clinging slightly lasciouvsly to the woman in a properly balanced stance I am certain the effect would be much more attractive and less subversive.
Would love to see that picture by the way.
As for the idea that woman don't like men who grovel for their attention... ...compare a poster of Star Wars with Leia at Luke's feet, there's something else that turned out to be more than a little subversive, with a poster of Gone with the Wind where Scarlett is surrounded by her many many suitors.
If the question is simply whether or not women are attracted to ineffectual men, than a lot of my prior rant is all off.
I imagine most heterosexual men would also say they would not be attracted to someone who lets others take advantage of them, has no talents or abilities, and needs to be rescued all the time. High-maintenance is a polite slang phrase for such a character.
If on the other hand, you were to translate the real scenario behind romance adventures into more general terms I am certain you would get a roughly universal response from both genders.
Try asking women,
"How would you like to go on an exciting adventure free of real risk and full of moral accomplishment, athletic achievement, and exotic beauty at the end of which we hook you up with a cute guy?"
The guy described at the begining of the thread didn't sound to ineffectual so much as poorly posed, noone wants a muscle bound anything hanging uncomfortably, and dangerously, off of their leg. Now if the muscle bound guy had been clinging slightly lasciouvsly to the woman in a properly balanced stance I am certain the effect would be much more attractive and less subversive.
Would love to see that picture by the way.
As for the idea that woman don't like men who grovel for their attention... ...compare a poster of Star Wars with Leia at Luke's feet, there's something else that turned out to be more than a little subversive, with a poster of Gone with the Wind where Scarlett is surrounded by her many many suitors.
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