That's a false dilemma. There are plenty of other options. What about people, like me, who think that high level martial characters have plenty of cool stuff? I think being able to action surge and do eight attacks for around 200 damage on each of the first two rounds of combat is, in fact, pretty cool. Being able to stealth up and murderize an enemy caster before they even know they are in combat is pretty cool. Being able to go toe to toe with a dragon fuelled only by your godlike strength and unquenchable rage is pretty cool. Plus, monks are okay, too.
Maybe there are a different two groups of people: folks who think high level martial characters (let's be real: they mean fighters) aren't cool unless they are basically Goku, and folks who enjoy game balance.