I openly challenge you on this !
What if your WIFE is one of your players !?![]()
Treating an opinion as "official" and thus invalidating the opinions of those actually playing the game...
There is the game, and suggested rules that the designers feel make for a good game. The rest is to be made up by participants depending on what they find most fun for them. Any opinion outside that group has equal validity in regards to what would be most fun for that group.
Official is therefore largely meaningless.
Is not necessarily what's happening. How many people ask about something being official, but *also* use house rules? Asking about official rulings is merely seeking information and perspective - it doesn't dictate how you use that information.
Right. So you spend a hundred bucks on something, and you find you have a question. It is A-OK to ask folks on the internet about it, but information from those who made the thing? Meaningless!
So, you never call tech support, do you? Never call a service provider, or check a company's web age for information after purchase?
Tabletop rpgs aren't tech, thus no tech support.
The product in question does not come with a service contract or a promise of support for a period of time.
This doesn't make official material any less valid as an option for another group or anything, it just happens to be one way the designers chose to represent a concept.
In my case, it's a case of knowing the rules well enough to break them. I'm happy making the call on my own, but knowing what the designers intended informs my choice, and helps me figure if there are any unforeseen ripple effects.