I totally agree.
And, FWIW, I'd be perfectly happy with a game in which you get 5 10's and 1 12. As I keep saying, it's not that I need a 16 specifically, it's that the incentive to make a character choice that leaves me with a +2 in my primary attribute is not as compelling as the choice that gives me a +3.
If, for example, there was a choice between the racial ASI and a feat, I'd happily play the unusual race/class but take a feat instead of the ASI.
But right now (or, pre-Tasha's) it was a choice between:
A) +2 in your primary attribute and (a bunch of racial abilities)
B) +2 in some other, potentially dump, attribute and (a bunch of racial abilities)
Given that the bunch of racial abilities are roughly equivalent...which they are, to me...I just never found it compelling to take choice B.