spectre72 said:
Surviving is relative term. If I have a $1000 a month mortgage payment then in a modern society paying that is surviving. In ages past Surviving may have meant planting grain.
A slight misrepresentation. If you have a $1000/month mortgage payment, you probably have a nice house (albeit a fixer-upper, from what you said below) or live in a moderately expensive area. You could survive by living in a smaller house or a worse neighborhood or a cheaper state, or, best of all, by refinancing your home to get a better deal
spectre72 said:
Again, this depends upon where you live and the type of employment you have. With the cost of living increasing faster than salaries are adjusted there are many of my friends who have had to take multiple jobs just to keep the bills paid. I am lucky that I have a decent job, but not everyone has escaped working at just above minimum wage. Technology has reduced the burden of housework, but where you had all day to do it before you now only have after work to get it done.
My comment about housework and technology applied to the '50s and '60s.
Taking multiple jobs is often a choice; a lower standard of living (which would still be 10x higher than in most eras of history) could accomplish much the same thing.
BTW, I'm not just talking out of my rear with this standard of living stuff - throughout the '90s, my family lived quite comfortably in a safe though unspectacular neighborhood on a single modest income, and in a city no less.
spectre72 said:
This is somewhat true, but commitments are physical (need money to pay bills) and cultural (take kids to baseball). You are also correct in that values have changed over the last 20 years or so and that has had a significant effect.
Actually, the major values shift is older now than 20 years.
spectre72 said:
What I wouldn't give to have any of the items on that list consuming my time. TV watching is at most a couple of hours a week. Electronic gaming no way do I have time for that. Reading a book, maybe one book over the last year (5 minutes or so nightly before sleep). Watching a movie, Episode 3 was the only one in the last 9-12 months. Sporting event - no way.
You're personally very busy. I don't contest that.
Statistics seem to indicate that most people are a great deal less busy than you, though. Including, I wager, the OP's
World of Warcraft playing friends.
spectre72 said:
Work every day and on call 24 hours a day. Volunteer firefighter with multiple meetings, calls, and training. Spend most weekends doing home improvement repair, our house had been neglected for 8 years before we bought it. Gaming once a month. Weddings, graduations, family events a couple times a month it seems. Add to that normal household cleaning and maintainance and taking care of my wife's mother and we are going every day from 8 AM to 9PM with the calendar booked months in advance.
And we don't even have kids yet!!!
Then game from 9:30 PM to 3:00 AM, like the crazy (er... dedicated) gamers I know!
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Just kidding.
However, you
do make the choice to be a volunteer firefighter, hence the term. If you were like most people and had no sense of civics, you could dedicate that time to gaming - even as pressed for time as you are, you still make a commitment and keep it.
spectre72 said:
It seems like there was a shift in the 1990's that took America toward the current amount of free time (real or percieved) that combined with a shift in values and beliefs to get us where we are today.
I think you may be right. The standard of living jumped more significantly in the '90s than it had since the '50s. Since much of the '90s standard was based on a temporary economic surge, the end of that surge left many (most?) people living beyond what could reasonably be described as their means.
My family was fortunate enough not to believe the hype. Our standard of living kept on climbing at a steady rate, with no debt, low payments and no post-90s dropoff. It is (or rather, was) possible and in the long run, it's been a lot more pleasant.
spectre72 said:
I am not disagreeing that people make choices about how to spend their free time, but I do believe there are more demands on it.
I don't disagree if you're making a comparison with 1960 or even 1980. But 1930?
1530? I don't buy it.