Sorry if it's causing problems. Milady and Zuleyka are very different from most of my characters LOL Dren and Errol don't even think about loot! As a player, I don't really care, apart from if an item is clearly of benefit to a character and another character who can't even use it tries to claim it. Given that 5e has little to spend gold on once you get your best armor and weapons, and that it's designed to run just fine without magical items, as a player I don't usually make a big deal out of it.